Welcome to CAI's Mentor Match Program

CAI is proud to support your professional journey through our new Mentor Match program! Designed to connect members for one-on-one guidance, support, and shared learning. This exclusive member benefit is a powerful online networking and career development tool that helps you find and connect with fellow community association professionals, whether they're across town or across the country.

Ready to grow your career and make meaningful connections? Follow these steps to join Mentor Match today!

  • Before you get started, take a moment to update your CAI member profile. A complete and accurate profile helps ensure strong mentor/mentee matches and sets the foundation for meaningful connections.

    Here’s what to do:

    • Confirm your contact information
    • Upload a current professional photo
    • Expand your bio to highlight your background
    • Add your education and career history


    Whether you're looking to share your experience or gain insights from a seasoned professional, CAI’s Mentor Match is designed to help community association leaders like you connect, grow, and succeed.

    By enrolling as a mentor or mentee, you agree to the program’s guidelines and are committing to an enriching and collaborative experience.

    Want to mentor or be mentored? Maybe both?
     
    Start here:

    • Enroll as a Mentee (we’ll include links when we have those available) 
    • Enroll as Mentor


    During enrollment, you’ll be asked to select your preferences in areas like:

    • Goals of mentorship
    • Areas of expertise
    • Years of experience
    • Job role or level
    • Preferred language
    • And more


    These details help us match you with someone who fits your needs and aspirations.

  • Now that your profile is complete, it’s time to make a connection! CAI’s Mentor Match platform makes it easy for members to discover and connect with mentors or mentees who align with their goals and professional interests.

    Here’s how it works:
    Mentees can *link: search the directory* to find and reach out to mentor, or mentors can also take the lead and connect with potential mentees! The process is flexible and designed to foster meaningful, member-driven relationships.

    You can refine your search by selecting criteria that matter most to you, or simply * link: browse all available mentors/mentees* by clicking “Search” at the bottom of the directory without applying filters.

    Search by criteria such as:
    • Community association experience
    • Job level or role
    • Areas of expertise (e.g., governance, legal, financial, maintenance)
    • Topics of interest
    • Preferred language

    Take full advantage of Mentor Match features:
    • Track your mentoring relationships
    • Join mentorship discussion forums
    • Access helpful mentorship resources

    Whether you’re looking to grow or give back, this is your opportunity to build lasting professional connections in the CAI community.
  • Congratulations, you are now ready to start your mentorship journey! Whether you’ve done one search or several, it’s time to take the next step and make a connection.

    If you're not sure how to begin, remember: you can simply *link* click "Search" at the bottom of the Mentor Match directory without selecting any filters to view all available participants.

    Once you’ve found someone you’re interested in connecting with, *link* click their name to view their profile. Take a look at their background, interests, and experience. Think it’s a good fit? Look just below their profile image for the mentor/mentee request button. Clicking it will allow you to send a connection request.

    Not the right match? No problem. Just hit the *link* Back to Search Results link and continue exploring.

    Both mentors and mentees can initiate a connection. Once a request is accepted, it’s time to schedule your initial *link* discovery call: a brief, introductory conversation to align expectations and kick off the relationship.

    Before that first meeting, be sure to review the:
    • Mentor Expectations Guide
    • Mentee Expectations Guide

    From there, set a time and date that works for both of you-whether it's a quick coffee chat, a phone call, or a virtual meeting.

    Your next professional connection starts here!
  • Now that you’ve connected, it’s time for your first conversation. During your initial meeting, take the opportunity to introduce yourself, share your background, and discuss what you hope to gain from the mentorship experience.

    It’s important to align on the purpose of the mentoring relationship and determine whether it feels like the right fit for both of you. To help guide the conversation, feel free to use *link( these suggested conversation starters.

    If either party feels the match isn’t ideal, that’s okay. We encourage honest, respectful dialogue. Should the relationship not continue, you can always return to *link * Step 2: Find a Mentor or Mentee*  to explore other connections within the CAI community.
  • Once you’ve both confirmed that the mentorship is a good fit, it’s time to create a plan together.

    This should include:
    • Setting goals for the mentee’s development
    • Establishing a meeting schedule, including frequency, format (virtual or in-person), and communication preferences
    • Agreeing on the overall length of the mentoring engagement
    • Scheduling a final meeting to review progress, reflect on accomplishments, and discuss possible next steps

    Remember, meaningful mentorships take time to grow—and every relationship is unique.

    If, over time, either party feels the match isn’t working, it’s okay to step away. We encourage respectful, open communication in these situations. The mentee can simply [return to Step 2] to search for a new match.
    For guidance on how to navigate this process professionally, see *link* Tips for Ending a Mentoring Relationship.

    If the mentorship needs to be ended due to misconduct or concerns, please contact us directly at [email protected] so we can provide support.
  • With your plan in place, continue meeting on the agreed schedule for the duration of your mentoring relationship. Use each meeting as a check-in point-review progress, revisit your goals, and adjust them if needed to stay on track.

     

    If either of you needs to reschedule a meeting, communicate as early as possible to maintain trust and momentum.

     

    To help make your meetings productive and meaningful, explore *link* mentoring best practices, including:

    • How to set and track goals effectively
    • Tips for being a great mentor or mentee
    • Additional tools and resources to support your mentorship experience]

     

    Your ongoing commitment to the process is what makes Mentor Match a valuable part of the CAI member community.

  • As your mentoring engagement comes to a close, take time together to reflect on the experience. This final step is essential to learning, growth, and shaping the future mentoring connections.

    Use this time to ask:

    • Were the mentee's goals achieved?
    • Did the mentor provide the guidance and support needed?
    • Should the relationship be extended , or is it time to explore a new match for continued growth? 
    • Did both parties fulfill the expectations outlined at the beginning of the engagement?


    Honest reflection helps both mentors and mentees gain clarity, celebrate progress, and consider next steps.
     

    We value your feedback and are always looking to improve the Mentor Match Experience. Please take a moment to complete this short survey and share your thoughts with us.

  • As your mentoring engagement concludes, it’s time to decide the next step. You can choose to either renew the existing mentoring relationship for continued growth or end the engagement. If the mentee feels it’s time to explore new perspectives, they may choose to make a new match with another mentor.

Join Mentor Match

Exclusive to CAI members only!

Additional Mentor Match Program Resources

Make the most of your mentoring relationship with these helpful resources.

  • Conversation Starters - AACE Mentoring Resource

    Find ideas on how to get the conversation started during your first meeting.
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  • General Resources - AACE Mentoring Resource

    A list of general resources to help create a succesful mentoring relationship.
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  • Goal Setting Worksheet - AACE Mentoring Resource

    Tips on how to identify areas of improvement and set measurable goals with your mentor/mentee.
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  • Mentee Expectations - AACE Mentoring Resource

    Find ideas on finding the right mentor to guide your professional development.
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  • Mentor Expectations - AACE Mentoring Resource

    Learn insight and gain a fresh perspective on being a great mentor.
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  • Tips to End the Mentoring Relationship - AACE Mentoring Resource

    How to set reasonable expectations and a schedule to end the mentoring relationship.
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